The fact is that when to people start off a romantic relationship, everything is driven by the surge of love hormones. Everything seems like Magic.
But what happens when the hormones wear off? Suddenly it seems like your partner is no longer the same person that you knew. They have become strangers.
If you are lucky, the two of you may just drift apart & continue as strangers barely knowing each other, barely interacting with each other. If you are not lucky, then you could become like many others where relationships turn sour and even abusive (verbally, emotionally & even physically).
What happens to the magic? Was the magic ever real? Why doesn't it last? Is there a way to make it last?
Human beings have what is believed to be a quality unique to humans only - the power to understand & choose.
At the start of the relationship, both partners make an effort to understand each other, understand each other's needs, wants & desires. Both partners make an effort to make choices that create the magic of attraction. You create the magic through your power of understanding & choice.
The challenge is that both you & your partner are constantly evolving as a person. How do you truly understand someone who is constantly changing & evolving?
I have been in the area of coaching & personal transformation for over a decade & have trained/coached over 10,000 people from across 15 nationalities including but not limited to Americans, Australians, British, Canadians, Dutch, Egyptians, French, German, Spanish, South Africans & many more.
During this periond, I have experienced that no matter what age group, nationality, ethnicity, race, culture you might belong to, there is a simple way to create magic between 2 people in a relationship. There is a simple way to begin to understand each other so deeply, that you don't need to speak to communicate with each other. You begin to sense each other's needs. And you can learn this.